Muslim family ostracised for daughter's marriage to a Hindu boy
By Sibdas Kundu
Balasore (Orissa), Aug. 22: A Muslim family of Seikhbad under Jaleswar police station in the district has been ostracized for the fact that their daughter eloped with a Hindu boy.
The family has been slapped a penalty of Rs 40,000 by the village panchayat to be allowed to live in the village and their failure to keep under control their daughter.
According to reports, the harassment for the family of Sheikh Badruddin, began after his daughter Naseema fled home on September 6, 2005, to marry her lover Pradip Ray, a Hindu boy of the village. Soon after the message of Naseema's elopement spread, the local Muslim community leaders decided to ostracise the family. They did not allow Badruddin's family member to participate in various socio-religious functions.
Although Badruddin, an employee of the Food Corporation of India, paid Rs 20,000 to the village head Sheikh Usman on October 14, 2005 , ostracism still continues to be imposed on the family for non-payment the balance penalty amount.
Police said Naseema had an affair with Pradip which was not known to her family. Although the a case has been filed at Jaleswar Police station about the missing of the girl, the lovers – who believed to have slipped to Delhi or Mumbai – have remained untraced.
"The members of the village panchayat never considered our pleading that we did not have any role in the missing of our daughter. They, rather, accused us of the whole incident. Nobody tried to understand our mental condition after Naseema's fled home," said Mr Badruddin in tearful eyes.
He showed the hand receipt of Rs 20,000 that he has paid to Usman Khan.
The Badruddin family has searched for their daughter everywhere including in Benaras, Delhi and Mumbai but in vain.
"I'm totally shattered ever since the incident took place. I'm not able to work in my office due to depression. The social ostracism has added to our owes," says Badruddin.
Following the failure of the police to trace out Naseema, Badruddin has filed a complaint case with the court of Sub-Divisional Judicial Magistrate (SDJM), Jaleswar.
The SDJM on February 14, 2006, passed an order asking the local police to locate the missing girl. However, the court order which is recorded to have reached Jaleswar police station two days later on Februay 16, is surprisingly missing, raising doubt about the sincerity of the then police officer to trace out the girl.
"We have registered a missing case. Neither do I know about the extortion bid by the community people nor am I aware about the complaint case order by the SDJM court . However, we would certainly look into the matter and try our best to locate the girl, said Umesh Panda, present officer-in-charge of Jaleswar police station.